9 love lessons to learn for a long lasting relationship.

Lessons for a Lasting Relationship Sandra Davis- Relationship This year, I'll be celebrating my tenth anniversary with my husband, and while that's certainly not a record-breaking accomplishment, there are a few things I've learned along the way regarding keeping a relationship healthy, or at least from falling apart at the seams. Here they are: 1. Touch him As human beings we all crave being touched. It gives us that sense of being connected to others, that sense of bonding I'm not necessarily talking about sexual touching, but things like simply touching his forearm when you're talking to him. 2. Compliment him. We're all naturally quick to point out our partner's flaws or things they did wrong or could do better, but why is it so hard to comment on what's great about him? Once we get used to each other, the great things become expected and taken for granted Pick three things that he does really well, and the next time you see him doing one of them, give him a nice little compliment like, 3. Keep your dirty laundry in your house If he's done something that really bothers you, and you feel the need to complain to your friends, co-workers, or your Mom, bite your tongue as hard as you can 4. Be a winning team. Look at life's ups and downs as something that you're both in together If you work together as a team, always looking out for the other, you'll be able to handle whatever comes at you. Just as the various members of a team have different talents, you and your partner have unique talents, so put them to work together to create greatness 5. Take him at face value Know that he is what he is and also know that he's not going to change. Then love him for what he is. Instead of looking at his bad habits as annoying, look at them as quirky traits that make him such a love-able guy. 6. Be compassionate in the Relationship When he's grouchy or snappy - particularly when it's directed at you - instead of getting defensive, feeling hurt, and pouting, snapping back or blaming, instead try to understand why he might be upset and where he's coming from. 7. Let go of having to be right When arguing always be truly open to what your partner is saying and focus on listening and understanding his point of view before talking. Even if after listening and understanding you still absolutely believe that you're right, instead of arguing about it to the bitter end, practice looking at is as he has a different opinion than you do 8. Do one special thing for your partner every day. Try something that he would love you to do for him and something that's unexpected (if you normally do the laundry, that doesn't count.) Why one thing every day? Because this will get you thinking about your partner in a selfless manner. 9. Chill out There will be a time where you're just absolutely ready to blow your top (or have already.) Instead of making things worse by screaming about the fact that he's acting just like his father, stop before the words come out, open the door and go outside to take a walk. Cool off and don't talk until you feel like you can do it calmly. Check the Resource Box to find out more on how to seduce a woman or to learn more about long lasting relationship

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